And what qualifies you to be laying down the law about language use? How would you feel if someone ordered you not to use the words “weight”, “mass”, “speed” or “velocity” unless you are a qualified physicist?

It’s true that I’m not qualified personally in psychiatry. If it’s any help, the then-head of psychiatry at a certain major hospital used to be my next-door neighbour, and he was constantly annoyed by the misuse of words like “delusion”.

However, it’s exactly like (and note the smooth seque into your second question) the way that woo-woo types use physics words like “energy” and “vibration”. The effect, whether intended or unintended, is to confuse whatever you’re trying to push with science, which makes it that much harder when you try to teach people real science.

How do you know Hemant meant “wrong”?

Several reasons:

1. I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt.

2. He usually uses words like “wrong” or “mistaken”, particularly when referring to non-fundies.

The liberal Christian beliefs with which most Atheists disagree are generally not scientifically falsifiable, and hence not contradicted by evidence, and Hemant is fully aware of this. He still thinks liberal Christianity is wrong, unnecessary and possibly a bit silly, but he does not, as far as I know, think it’s “deluded”.

3. Most crucially, this is precisely one of the points under discussion. Had Hemant wanted to disagree with Greta so blatantly in her expanded discourse on point #4, he would have done so explicitly rather than implicitly. That is, after all, what he did with her last point.

If Hemant wants to weigh in on this, I encourage him to do so, but I understand if he doesn’t want to for whatever reason.

Complete change of topic, since Claire brought it up. I agree with what she said, but for me it’s really easy to say.

OK, probably the best way to say this is just to say what Liberal Christians really think, but may not be willing to admit. Once we know what the problems are, we can talk about what to do about them.

(Note: In that follows, I will refer to Liberal Christians as “I” or “us”, and Atheists as “you”, to save some typing.)

As a Christian, I’m far more free to reject the likes of Pat Robertson than you are to reject Christopher Hitchens, even though they exhibit a similar level of arseholery, obliviousness to evidence and stupid statements. And I’m far more free to give a nuanced response to someone like Marcus Borg than you are to Richard Dawkins.

I have the luxury of not having to present a united front. Perversely, even though I am in the least “exclusive” streams of Christianity (in the sense that we don’t waste any time divining who’s “in” and who’s “out”), the more I distinguish myself from “them”, the better it is for me.

So this is the main sticking point that we need dialogue to overcome. Liberal Christians are used to distinguishing themselves from whackos, and so get annoyed when Atheists don’t. We don’t, as a rule, understand it that this is a luxury that you can’t afford.

Greta quite rightly instructs potential allies to not “divide” Atheists, but that’s actually not the frame in which Liberal Christians see it. We can pick and choose whom we work with, and it’s intended as a compliment to you that we think you can too. It means we see you as a wronged group of people in need of real justice.

We’ve also spent a hell of a lot of time on cleaning out our own house, and working on how others see us. We don’t attack fundies in public because it distracts from what we see as our central missions. The charities that we run, for example, need donations. If anyone thought for a moment that any of those donations would be spent on attacking Pat Robertson, donations would plummet, and our charities would suffer. We can’t afford that.

So that’s another aspect to the problem: How can we support you, without us being seen as supporting anti-theism?

All of this will be moot when Atheism becomes mainstream. Deep down, we all know that when that happens, anti-theism will be dropped like a bad smell. Just look at the current irrelevance of Germaine Greer in the feminist movement: that’s Christopher Hitchens in a couple of decades.

Until then, we have some serious thinking and talking to do.

Not to put words into someone’s mouth but “deluded” is far more descriptive of religious beliefs than just plain wrong. I think is easy to assume that we are not talking about the everyday usage and not the medical term.

First off, and most importantly, don’t say “deluded” when you mean “wrong”. In fact, just to be safe, don’t use the word “deluded” at all unless you’re a qualified psychiatrist.

And what qualifies you to be laying down the law about language use? How would you feel if someone ordered you not to use the words “weight”, “mass”, “speed” or “velocity” unless you are a qualified physicist? (If you actually are one, I can find you an example from another area.)

How do you know Hemant meant “wrong”? He may have meant “persistently clinging to an erroneous belief in the face of the evidence and repeated attempts to correct that belief”. In which case “wrong” just doesn’t cover it.

If you wish to say that psychiatrists have a technical meaning of the term “deluded” which doesn’t match the everyday meaning, then just say that. And for extra credibility, how about explaining to us what that technical meaning is?

If we have a real difference about tactics over any given issue or situation, by all means we should air them. But the general ideological battle over whether firebreathing or diplomacy is always and forevermore the better tactic is ridiculous.

(I agree they’re still deluded about their fundamental beliefs, but that’s besides the point.)

Oh, man. This sentence really bugs me in so many ways, and it illustrates the importance of being careful with language.

First off, and most importantly, don’t say “deluded” when you mean “wrong”. In fact, just to be safe, don’t use the word “deluded” at all unless you’re a qualified psychiatrist.

Secondly, and more subtly, the word “fundamental” is a tricky one for reasons that should become clear after a moments’ thought.

Apart from that one sentence, this was a great post. Thanks to both Greta and Hemant.

More and more I find myself channeling my “inner Evolved and Rational” in my responses.

(dang, I love her at times!)

What is not fine (and I think this is the point that Greta Christina is trying to make) is rejecting ridicule in all circumstances. Or rejecting a conciliatory approach in all circumstances. There are times when one approach is appropriate and times when another is appropriate. There are times when it is very hard to tell what is the best approach. And there are people who are better at one, and people who are better at another.

In short: accept that there is more than one way to skin a sacred cow.