Comments on: Honest Talk About the Safest Sex of All

By: Teen

Teen — Sun, 31 Aug 2008 00:58:51 +0000

I’m so glad i’m Atheist…

By: William

William — Wed, 11 Jun 2008 00:27:52 +0000

Dear Jen, can you name even one thing on this planet that does not have the potential for “occasional dangers? Trust me, there is nothing at all, anywhere, that does not include the occasional danger. Trust me.

By: Derek

Derek — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 22:42:33 +0000

I would have agreed with the FriendlyChristian’s blog back then, too. Of course, I defined “lust” as “having an erection” (you can imagine what a fucked up adolescence I had), and I wouldn’t be surprised if the FC blogger does too.

By: Derek

Derek — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 22:35:26 +0000

Hah, when I was 17 I read that quote from Dobson in his sex ed book, myself being a “recovering masturbator”, clean for 3 years, and was absolutely pissed off. How dare he suggest such casual treatment of sexuality after I had put so much effort into getting my urges under control and risked humiliation and ostracism coming clean to my spiritual peers about my sexual addictions!!

By: Brian E

Brian E — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 20:24:15 +0000

Good post – I gave it a good tug while reading. I think I see HR coming this way…

By: cipher

cipher — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 20:15:12 +0000

I’m surprised to hear Dobson saying something relatively sensible about it. Years ago, on Phil Donahue, I hard Falwell say flat out that it’s a sin.

Actually, I thought Friendly Christian’s take was more typical.

By: Oops

Oops — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 03:46:04 +0000

You know, they call it the safest sex of all. But there can occasionally be some dangers. Trust me on this. Trust me.

That is definitely true. If you do masturbate several times a day for some time, there can be… unforeseen complications. Like rubbing the penis raw, so it hurts to walk for several days, and you can’t masturbate again for at least a week.

So don’t masturbate excessively, or at least use lube. Just trust me on this one.

By: I like tea

I like tea — Sun, 08 Jun 2008 22:12:25 +0000

I once accidentally scratched my girlfriend’s clit with my fingernail while masturbating her. Does that count as a “danger”?

Well, that’s not masturbation, but I guess theoretically a girl could do that to herself. Like biting your tongue? I don’t know.

By: Wes

Wes — Sun, 08 Jun 2008 18:49:29 +0000

I once accidentally scratched my girlfriend’s clit with my fingernail while masturbating her. Does that count as a “danger”?

(And, yes, she was extremely pissed, and I didn’t get any for the rest of the night. But eventually she got over it.)

By: Aimee

Aimee — Sun, 08 Jun 2008 05:36:23 +0000

Care to elaborate Jen? The only “danger” that happened to me is when I was too close to my husband while he was masturbating and I got hit in the eye! Man did that burn. : )