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		<title>By: Secular Dignity</title>
		<link>http://friendlyatheist.com/2008/03/06/de-conversion-post/comment-page-1/#comment-137995</link>
		<dc:creator>Secular Dignity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 07:42:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;I think you left out a step in their argument: “I was self-destructive, faith in God helped me get better after all my other efforts had failed, therefore God exists.”&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I suppose so, but I still don&#039;t buy it. Your pain is your problem.

(I mean in general. I am not directing anger at Mr Clawson in particular.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>I think you left out a step in their argument: “I was self-destructive, faith in God helped me get better after all my other efforts had failed, therefore God exists.”</p></blockquote>
<p>I suppose so, but I still don&#8217;t buy it. Your pain is your problem.</p>
<p>(I mean in general. I am not directing anger at Mr Clawson in particular.)</p>
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		<title>By: MikeClawson</title>
		<link>http://friendlyatheist.com/2008/03/06/de-conversion-post/comment-page-1/#comment-137978</link>
		<dc:creator>MikeClawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 06:47:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;There are Xians who try to convert people by saying that Jesus helped them kick drugs. This is given as a reason for us to believe. “I was self-destructive, therefore God exists”.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I think you left out a step in their argument: &quot;I was self-destructive, faith in God helped me get better after all my other efforts had failed, therefore God exists.&quot;

Though to be completely fair, I&#039;ve heard many testimonies like this and most of the time the point wasn&#039;t really to &quot;prove&quot; anything or convert anyone. They were just honestly relating their experiences. Of course, your experiences may differ.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>There are Xians who try to convert people by saying that Jesus helped them kick drugs. This is given as a reason for us to believe. “I was self-destructive, therefore God exists”.</p></blockquote>
<p>I think you left out a step in their argument: &#8220;I was self-destructive, faith in God helped me get better after all my other efforts had failed, therefore God exists.&#8221;</p>
<p>Though to be completely fair, I&#8217;ve heard many testimonies like this and most of the time the point wasn&#8217;t really to &#8220;prove&#8221; anything or convert anyone. They were just honestly relating their experiences. Of course, your experiences may differ.</p>
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		<title>By: Secular Dignity</title>
		<link>http://friendlyatheist.com/2008/03/06/de-conversion-post/comment-page-1/#comment-137958</link>
		<dc:creator>Secular Dignity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 05:10:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You were not prying, and I was not crying. I just read what I was writing, and I thought that it was starting to become incoherent.

Here is another attempt:
There are Xians who try to convert people by saying that Jesus helped them kick drugs. This is given as a reason for us to believe. &quot;I was self-destructive, therefore God exists&quot;. I think it is a non-sequitur. If you are self-destructive, it does not prove your religion. It just proves you are stupid. 

Alcohol does not sprout legs and jump down your throat. You have to put it there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You were not prying, and I was not crying. I just read what I was writing, and I thought that it was starting to become incoherent.</p>
<p>Here is another attempt:<br />
There are Xians who try to convert people by saying that Jesus helped them kick drugs. This is given as a reason for us to believe. &#8220;I was self-destructive, therefore God exists&#8221;. I think it is a non-sequitur. If you are self-destructive, it does not prove your religion. It just proves you are stupid. </p>
<p>Alcohol does not sprout legs and jump down your throat. You have to put it there.</p>
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		<title>By: MikeClawson</title>
		<link>http://friendlyatheist.com/2008/03/06/de-conversion-post/comment-page-1/#comment-137927</link>
		<dc:creator>MikeClawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 03:56:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ok, no problem SD. I don&#039;t mean to pry.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ok, no problem SD. I don&#8217;t mean to pry.</p>
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		<title>By: Secular Dignity</title>
		<link>http://friendlyatheist.com/2008/03/06/de-conversion-post/comment-page-1/#comment-137896</link>
		<dc:creator>Secular Dignity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 02:06:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To: Mike Clawson

Regarding my &quot;divorced addict&quot; comment:

My male biological parent is a boozer. Maybe he still is, I do not know because I do not have any contact. (My choice. I know &quot;male biological parent&quot; is a mouthful; it is an intentional word choice.) I started writing a response clarifying my comment, and it became a rant. Perhaps I will clarify some other time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To: Mike Clawson</p>
<p>Regarding my &#8220;divorced addict&#8221; comment:</p>
<p>My male biological parent is a boozer. Maybe he still is, I do not know because I do not have any contact. (My choice. I know &#8220;male biological parent&#8221; is a mouthful; it is an intentional word choice.) I started writing a response clarifying my comment, and it became a rant. Perhaps I will clarify some other time.</p>
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		<title>By: MikeClawson</title>
		<link>http://friendlyatheist.com/2008/03/06/de-conversion-post/comment-page-1/#comment-137890</link>
		<dc:creator>MikeClawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 01:46:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not sure what you mean by &quot;taking precedence&quot; Edwin. I don&#039;t think one has to take precedence over the other since personally I don&#039;t see any contradiction between the &quot;evidence of the universe&quot; and &quot;revealed wisdom&quot;, at least as I&#039;ve come to understand it. IMHO, they both spring from the same source, so why should I expect to find any contradiction? It&#039;s not an either/or for me. It&#039;s a both/and. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not sure what you mean by &#8220;taking precedence&#8221; Edwin. I don&#8217;t think one has to take precedence over the other since personally I don&#8217;t see any contradiction between the &#8220;evidence of the universe&#8221; and &#8220;revealed wisdom&#8221;, at least as I&#8217;ve come to understand it. IMHO, they both spring from the same source, so why should I expect to find any contradiction? It&#8217;s not an either/or for me. It&#8217;s a both/and.</p>
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		<title>By: Edwin</title>
		<link>http://friendlyatheist.com/2008/03/06/de-conversion-post/comment-page-1/#comment-137882</link>
		<dc:creator>Edwin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 01:27:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;what was different for me is that when I encountered ideas about the world that didn’t jive with my faith, I was willing to adapt my faith to accommodate them.&quot;

What I don&#039;t understand is why your faith - which is based on very questionable (by your own admission) &quot;revealed wisdom&quot; written down in one book - takes precedence over the evidence of the universe itself.

I can see ending up a pantheist or a Deist. Christianity just doesn&#039;t make any sense on the face of it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;what was different for me is that when I encountered ideas about the world that didn’t jive with my faith, I was willing to adapt my faith to accommodate them.&#8221;</p>
<p>What I don&#8217;t understand is why your faith &#8211; which is based on very questionable (by your own admission) &#8220;revealed wisdom&#8221; written down in one book &#8211; takes precedence over the evidence of the universe itself.</p>
<p>I can see ending up a pantheist or a Deist. Christianity just doesn&#8217;t make any sense on the face of it.</p>
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		<title>By: MikeClawson</title>
		<link>http://friendlyatheist.com/2008/03/06/de-conversion-post/comment-page-1/#comment-137869</link>
		<dc:creator>MikeClawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 00:51:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks SD. Though I&#039;m amused by this particular comment:

&lt;blockquote&gt;The divorced addicts are the worst.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

And wondering what exactly you mean by that. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks SD. Though I&#8217;m amused by this particular comment:</p>
<blockquote><p>The divorced addicts are the worst.</p></blockquote>
<p>And wondering what exactly you mean by that. <img src='http://friendlyatheist.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Secular Dignity</title>
		<link>http://friendlyatheist.com/2008/03/06/de-conversion-post/comment-page-1/#comment-137867</link>
		<dc:creator>Secular Dignity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 00:45:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A few quotes from Mr Clawson:

&lt;blockquote&gt;I had learned that doubt and uncertainty were an unavoidable part of the human condition, and that questioning my faith was actually a good thing.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

And
&lt;blockquote&gt;
I de-converted from the faith of my youth, from the kind of faith that was locked into one narrow set of answers - that didn’t allow room for questions and doubts - and from the kind of faith that said the most important thing was believing exactly the right set of doctrines rather than how we actually lived in the world.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

And from this thread:

&lt;blockquote&gt;While that sounds good in theory, in my experience “truth” rarely conforms so easily to such nice, neat little boxes. &lt;/blockquote&gt;

You don&#039;t sound like most Christians. You seem to be aware that not everybody thinks like you. A lot of Christians think that I should believe just because they believe. The divorced addicts are the worst. I think the world (and the USA) would be more pleasant if there were more Christians like you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few quotes from Mr Clawson:</p>
<blockquote><p>I had learned that doubt and uncertainty were an unavoidable part of the human condition, and that questioning my faith was actually a good thing.</p></blockquote>
<p>And</p>
<blockquote><p>
I de-converted from the faith of my youth, from the kind of faith that was locked into one narrow set of answers &#8211; that didn’t allow room for questions and doubts &#8211; and from the kind of faith that said the most important thing was believing exactly the right set of doctrines rather than how we actually lived in the world.</p></blockquote>
<p>And from this thread:</p>
<blockquote><p>While that sounds good in theory, in my experience “truth” rarely conforms so easily to such nice, neat little boxes. </p></blockquote>
<p>You don&#8217;t sound like most Christians. You seem to be aware that not everybody thinks like you. A lot of Christians think that I should believe just because they believe. The divorced addicts are the worst. I think the world (and the USA) would be more pleasant if there were more Christians like you.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben</title>
		<link>http://friendlyatheist.com/2008/03/06/de-conversion-post/comment-page-1/#comment-137433</link>
		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2008 00:36:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;I’d say you really need to read the first book to get the broader context of the conversation and the journey for his characters up to that point.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Very valid point.



&lt;blockquote&gt;I too got annoyed at how “amazed” and “wowed” some of those skeptics were at Neo’s explanations.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I&#039;m glad it wasn&#039;t just me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>I’d say you really need to read the first book to get the broader context of the conversation and the journey for his characters up to that point.</p></blockquote>
<p>Very valid point.</p>
<blockquote><p>I too got annoyed at how “amazed” and “wowed” some of those skeptics were at Neo’s explanations.</p></blockquote>
<p>I&#8217;m glad it wasn&#8217;t just me.</p>
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