12.16.07
PostSecret: Atheism
Another secret revealed:

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Posted in Friendly Atheist at 9:28 pm by Hemant Mehta
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MikeClawson said,
December 16, 2007 at 9:56 pm
So what do you suppose they meant by this?
Secular Planet said,
December 16, 2007 at 10:05 pm
I would guess that they’re not prepared for the finality of death. That is, maybe if they thought there was an afterlife, they would be prepared to abandon the misery of this life and hope for something better afterward.
It’s just speculation though.
NYCatheist said,
December 16, 2007 at 10:23 pm
Hmm, I guess in a situation like this I shouldn’t complain that they capitalized “atheism”…
Do all Christian sects teach that suicides are sent to Hell? I would guess that any so-called Christian suicides are not true believers, because if you REALLY believe in the literal reality of Hell, why would you take the risk? It’s like what Hitchens has said about those child rapists in the clergy. How could they really believe their own teachings and do such heinous acts?
J Myers said,
December 16, 2007 at 10:35 pm
SP, I had the same impression. And we’re so often told that atheism “has nothing to offer.” Nonsense - atheism saves lives!
MikeClawson said,
December 16, 2007 at 11:16 pm
No, just Catholics.
UPDATE: Actually I should have checked my facts first. As it turns out, Catholics do not believe that all suicides go to Hell (they clarified their position on this in a recent update to the catechism). Since neither do most Protestants that I’ve ever heard of (since most Protestants don’t believe you can lose your salvation simply by sinning), I guess that makes very few Christians who actually do think suicides go to Hell. (In fact, I don’t know of any major groups that teach that.)
Richard Wade said,
December 17, 2007 at 1:59 am
I have heard people say things like “Sometimes my faith is the only thing that keeps me from killing myself,” meaning their faith is the only thing that compensates for their misery or the only thing that gives them any hope. Whether or not that is valid I don’t think is the point with this. My first impression was that the illustrator took such a sentiment and juxtaposed atheism where the opposite used to be, just to mess around with the idea and see what reaction it would produce. Artists do whimsical stuff like that, mixing up things in unexpected ways just to see what happens. I know, I am one.
NYCatheist said,
December 17, 2007 at 9:13 am
Mike, thanks for the clarification.
Richard, that’s a good point and I suspect you are right.
Justanotheratheist said,
December 17, 2007 at 9:14 am
Well, I definitely do not think there is a causal relationship between atheism and depression or theism and depression. But, I do think there are depressed atheists (and theists). If this guy is depressed and feeling suicidal, maybe the reason and skepticism that brought him to atheism has made him realize the finality of this action and has staved off this choice. Either way, it sounds like a person who would need help regardless of how he feels about god.
Rovakur said,
December 17, 2007 at 9:29 am
Okay, this is is good - even if it is true, at least the person is, intentionally or not, rational (i.e. only one life to live).
Claire said,
December 17, 2007 at 12:18 pm
While I can’t say what the author of this postcard truly meant (if he or she was indeed serious), I can understand the sentiment. Dying looks different depending on if you believe you go somewhere wonderful or don’t go anywhere at all. A person who is moderately depressed might think heaven right now looks like a good deal, but to think permanent oblivion looks good requires really deep depression.
Joel Sax said,
December 17, 2007 at 3:14 pm
My therapist calls this “Letting God off the hook” and there’s something to it. There are ways inside and outside religion to do this. As an agnostic, the thing I say to myself is “the Universe is not out to get you.” If there is no God beating down on you, then there is no sin that you are being punished for. You are not being singled out for a special calling that never comes, etc.
Believers can turn to the book of Job. Mind you that scholars feel that the whole business of the bet was added later by some pundit who didn’t get the rest of the story. Job loses everything. He has three friends who tell him that it was somehow his fault even though he was a virtuous man. Then God comes to Job in the whirlwind and says “You can’t hope to understand why this happened. Just live a good life.”
And I think both are powerful messages. I can’t hope to understand why, in this wide wide universe, I was born with bipolar disorder. Sure I know the science. But if I ask a bigger Why I am burdened with a despair for which there is no answer. And so the best thing to do is not to ask the Why, to just live through episodes of the disease as best I can.
I think this person said Goodbye to All That. And I understand.
MikeClawson said,
December 17, 2007 at 5:37 pm
Great points Joel. Very well said. And I definitely wish more Christians, especially those who automatically and insensitively spout off “God let this happen for a reason” to anyone who has suffered a tragedy, would read the book of Job and take to heart God’s reply. Sometimes shit just happens and even God doesn’t have a good answer for us.
Old Beezle said,
December 17, 2007 at 6:44 pm
Mike, would that be that god doesn’t know or he’s not revealing the reasons to us at the present moment?
MikeClawson said,
December 17, 2007 at 7:45 pm
Or we are not capable of comprehending the reasons.
Or the reason is simply that it’s just the way things are.
Old Beezle said,
December 17, 2007 at 11:20 pm
It sounds like a shell game to me.
MikeClawson said,
December 17, 2007 at 11:44 pm
Well, take your pick. There’s not always only one right answer.
Joel Sax said,
December 18, 2007 at 1:30 am
Old Beezle: The Jobian answer is that the Universe is a hell of a complicated place. God does things and they ripple, occasionally causing harm where it was not intended. (Change God to Universe and you have a nice atheist/agnostic description of why bad things happen to good people.)
Aran said,
December 18, 2007 at 7:19 am
Yes! This is the way I understood the postcard, too. After years of struggling with the paradoxical and insensitive teachings of my family’s religion, and after years of feeling as if I’d been abandoned or disregarded by “God”, I finally quit the god game, and it’s been quite freeing. My life is mine now, and I have control. Sure, difficult situations arise, even seemingly unsurmountable ones. Once I stopped feeling as if there ought to be some kind of god-related aspect to various situations, I felt much less paralyzed by circumstance and more able to see clearly and be proactive about things. Gone, too, was the despair I’d sink into over how a loving god could “let” this happen, or would refuse to respond to prayer, or would randomly “reward” someone else in a similar situation but “punish” me.
In short, I stopped letting a non-present, non-responsive entity make me feel like crap all the time.
Old Beezle said,
December 18, 2007 at 3:24 pm
Then the reasoning is always up to us. I just don’t see how a god is involved in any of it and, if he was, why he’s only partially involved.
Once again–no god. Arbitrary and random. People came up with reasons to try to explain the chaos and put a framework on the void and the god-concept is an offshoot of that.